My definition of a Man...

A man understands his role in life and truly knows what it means to provide, protect and profess...
A man is honest with himself and others.....Everyone lies but there comes a time in your life where you figure out that nothing positive comes out of telling a lie and you're better off being honest...
A man doesn't wait for things to happen, he makes things happen...
A man takes care of his responsibilities and doesn't make excuses for himself...
A man is aware of his flaws and flaws in others, yet open-minded and understanding enough to know that no one is perfect...



**More will be added** Feel free to add more via comments and I will add it to the posting...

Jeremih

Aww Man I'm in love with his Voice (and Lips) lol !!

Venting...

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*The word "BITCH" will be overused and I feel like if you're not a BITCH, then you shouldn't take offense....but if you are the type of person who would take offense even though this posting has nothing to do with YOU, then please leave NOW.........

I hate bitches that walk around like they're the shit knowing damn well that they don't even have a pot to piss in...they walk around like they're pussy is platinum and it smells like fish ( seriously), if i'm at a party and u sit next to me or walk past me and i smell fish...something is wrong.....I hate ppl who buy fake shit and they know they're buying fake shit and they lie about it. Bitch I know its fake...you aint gotta lie to me !!! You just look stupid. I hate people who have babies and are extra cheap with their clothes and stuff but spend all their money on themselves. If you have on pradas , your baby should not be walking around in (mini) chinese slippers and shit....step it up...I don't understand bitches who are hoes....I mean HOES.....who fuck for money and then run and give it to their "Daddy" and get beat for stupid shit and then fuck him and do it all over again.......I have nothing against prostitution, I mean there's nothing wrong with having sex for money....porn stars do it all the time.....the only difference is they do it on camera and probably get paid more. i'm just saying if I was a prostitute, I would not have a pimp.....I've heard of plenty of girls selling pussy on myspace and AIM ( yuppp right in their away msgs)...even MEN do it...think i'm joking?? I'm NOT....I hate chicks that have children and don't claim them.....they don't do shit for their child....yet they claim them when it's convenient.....for example : (girl 1) yeah i just had a baby girl , (girl 2) oh really, yeah well i have a daughter but she's staying with my aunt for a while: NO bitch u haven't seen her in a year and u don't try.....i can understand if for some reason ppl don't wanna claim that they have children on myspace , that's cool everyone has their boundaries when it comes to privacy and their families but theres a big difference between not claiming you have a child and acting like you don't have a child at all....it just makes me sick....i swear if i ever see this bitch again i will KILL her ................PAUSE........(clears throat).....Excuse me for getting a little personal.....anywaysss....I hate bitches who are smuts but talk about other smuts.....bitch you had sex with 7 diff guys in one month (unprotected) (3 diff guys in one week while u were on ur period)......but u got the nerve to talk about someone else???? I don't get it........


THE END (for now)......

Everything happens for a reason......

It's a new year and i'm definitely changing things up a little. I've learned a lot about myself and others last year, now it's time for me to make the appropriate changes. I can only blame myself for the mistakes I made last year and it's up to me to make sure I don't do them again. As for the people around me, I love my sisters Rose and Melonie. Melonie is in MD now { =( } but it's for the best. At the end of the day, they're all i really have besides my family. As for Men, it's whatever. I'm not even worried about that anymore. Whatever happens, happens. I just wanna give a round of applause to the men who had me and let me slip away>>>applauses<<< you didn't deserve me anyway. '09 is all about being focused, and fixing everything I f*cked up. If you thought I was mean** last year, wait until u see how I am this year.. This is the day I STOP caring =)....


***= i'm not really mean, but people tend to call me mean when they don't get what they want. Obviously I've been too nice and this is when it all stops.

What is a good man???

Lately , a lot of guys have been asking me "what is your definition of a good man?", so I'm gonna break it down for everyone lol. This is my definition of the perfect man (which of course doesn't exist)........but we all know thats where compromise comes in :-).....

Confident, Sexy, handsome, Smart, Clever, Strong, Sensual, Driven, HONEST, loyal, caring, selfless, TRUSTWORTHY, loving, good listener, outgoing, open-minded, spontaneous, thoughtful understanding...

I need a man who is not selfish....men these days are becoming selfish. They only care about what they're getting and what you can do for them..wtf?? to be honest, I think thats a female trait...to always want something and to always want someone to do something for you. What happened to chivalry?? oh, its dead??? OBVIOUSLY. Men aren't men anymore. I'm not even talking about conventional standards, because I don't really believe in anything that's conventional.

Bait and Switch.....

The (not so) great bait and switch ( in regards to relationships) tactic is the worst. Men will SAY and DO everything they can to get you, and once they've got u then they show their true colors. Women use the tactic also, but since I am a woman, I'm going to talk about how MEN use this to play their little games. First off, all men reach a certain age where in their mind they should be starting to settle down (if they're the settling down type), so if you're like 30 and still playing (mind)games, there is a problem. Anyway, back to the matter at hand. Men, just be yourselves PLEASE !!! You are setting us (females) up for disappointment and yourselves also. There are a lot of females who will settle after they find out that the man isn't all that he claimed to be and try to find ways around it , but there are other women who will not put up with the bullshit. If you know you're not the romantic, candlelit dinners, surprise gifts, and cuddling type and you know that it's not something that u don't mind doing to make your woman happy, then don't do it period !! Don't constantly do it at the start of the relationship, just to stop . Don't act like you care about things when you know you don't. Don't make promises that you're not gonna own up to. Don't play yourself !!! If you know you're only making $15,000 a year, don't front like you're making $40,000 a year by spoiling us and buying all these expensive things for the first month and then be cheap as hell for the rest of the relationship. If you don't make a lot of money or you don't really believe in spending a lot of money on women, then improvise !! Women like men who are creative, it's not always about money and expensive things. We can appreciate a thoughtful man, but PLEASE believe if u get us into the habit of being spoiled then that is exactly what we are going to expect !!

In conclusion, I just have to say this....men have a habit of getting us and then not doing what it takes to keep us. I can't speak for all other women, but I can speak for myself. If you think its hard getting me, then please believe that its gonna be twice as hard to keep me around.

why do i bother?????

i don't even know why i bother with some things. I tell myself not to, I mean I should know better by now, but I always find myself in the same situation. It's annoying and upsetting and at the end of the day, i can only blame myself. I definitely feel like i've been cursed, in so many ways.....smh....